I am talking the natural need
Before I express myself I want to say.
I am old school person I believe in one man .
Not looking online fun
What I am going to share is many people situation.
We all try to get mind divert into work or self help to relief.
There are days the body hormone spike you are left with question why I can't have healthy regular intimacy. Because how much you try the spike don't let you calm.
You get into circle of hurt and pain.unworthy
Is there any soln where you don't have to go out n date multiple people for just body spike need.
Dating n multiple partner is not my thing. Self help sometime fail. To get one sensible n stable person for this is risky n impossible too.
@wittyMap7054
You are not alone in wanting 1 on 1 intimacy and more than just a short term fix. I think this is still more common than the impression we sometimes get.
A deeper, longer term relationship can have lots of positive benefits. But yes, all relationships carry some risk and challenges. Intimacy requires some sharing of vulnerabilities and this can be quite daunting.
I'm sorry that it feels impossible to you right now. I don't believe that it is impossible. I see lots of evidence that many people achieve what you are looking for. But, I notice these people tend not to post much on social media, so it is easy to get a biased impression. And it is not easy. Which can make it so very frustrating!
Challenging things can be made more achievable by breaking them down into smaller steps. I wonder if you can find someone who would be able to help you figure out the path to achieve what you want?
@Clio9876
Deeper longer relationship are not easy to get.
Already I feel I don't have energy n patience to handle someone else mindset.
Keeping causal n long term work best.
Though it never pop up in mind.
Venting here would help me not to try this.v
I feel similar but to honest i think there is no solution,and time doesn't help.optimism is a good thing but for this topic beeing realistic is more sensible
@tiredbubble00
Yes so true time don't heal anything.
Something can fade our memory can help