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User Profile: frankSummer9049
frankSummer9049 March 25th, 2025

My husband had an emotional affair that I discovered a year and half ago. Since then he has done everything I have asked him to do. He’s become a much more healthier person to be around, especially for myself and the kids.


But I can’t seem to let it go. I think about it daily. He’s been transparent with his phone. But if I get a second alone with it, I deep dive into everything. It’s exhausting. I think I just don’t want to be blind sided again.


I don’t know how to let it go. How do I let it go?

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User Profile: silverSunrise4142
silverSunrise4142 June 13th, 2025

Establishing boundaries is great. There’s a compromise of trust that usually is deep. This can certainly make it hard for someone to move on. This takes time. It is exhausting! I am trying to stop myself from doing this. I had a different outcome but I exhibit the same feelings!