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Relationship Sadness

User Profile: neatBlueberry5213
neatBlueberry5213 May 17th, 2023

As someone who has always hoped to end up in a loving and respectful relationship, it is very discouraging to see another year pass with no dates.

I wonder if I should give up the dream entirely. It's hard to let go of something you've had in your heart since your teens.

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User Profile: YourCaringConfidant
YourCaringConfidant May 17th, 2023

@neatBlueberry5213 Hi Blueberry. I am so sorry to hear that another year has passed for you and still no dates. I can't imagine the pain you must feel that comes with a lack of relationship. It seems you have your heart set on it and is something you truly desire so it saddens me to question if you must give up on the dream of what could one day be. We do not know what the future holds but I bet you are a wonderful person. I bet there are qualities about you that are so amazing that set you apart from all the rest. I hope you know there is nothing wrong with you and that in time.... you will hopefully find the one who makes the wait all worth the while. I hope you never lose help. <3

User Profile: sociablePark1240
sociablePark1240 May 18th, 2023

Just give it time. Until then love yourself and know your worth. @neatBlueberry5213

User Profile: zeetee17
zeetee17 May 26th, 2023

I empathize, im just in the other end of the spectrum. My relationship taught me that the fairytale doesnt exist.

Its a hard pill to swallow. Its not too late for you though, hopefully you meet someone and fall in love and have the dream