Accepting things
Due to some major mistakes in my past. I will never be acceptable to men to date. People still spread gossip about me. An ex friend made it a point to find me on social media to show me that she got married. It’s so hard to ignore and accept that this is my life. I find myself frustrated with why allowed myself to make the mistakes.
Hey, I am not sure how qualified I am to reply to you on this. But gotta tell you, until you've got faith in yourself nothing is gonna have power over you. Unless you subdue to it. If I am not wrong, you are allowing the people judge you. And worse than that, you are not very well keep undisclosed that you're being affected by it. You will be affected for sure, but don't let them have the pleasure of knowing. Secondly, it's not gonna go away in one night that we both know. But, get yourself something to belong to. A friend would do fine, but not necessary if you don't wanna hang out with people for a while. You can get a pet, a book, a hobby even if you really suck at it. Or just get out and take a long walk, or get on the bus and just roam through city. Thoughts will come. Let them. They'll try to destroy you. Let them. But tomorrow you shall know that you endured it all, as it came. And survived to tell the tale. Don't think much about what people are thinking about you. This won't happen overnight but you'll have to do it. When you allow that negative vibes into you that's when you allow them power over you. Afterall, A ship sinks not because there is water around it, but because the water that manages to get in. You can do it, Amigo!
Thank you 🙏🏽. This gives me hope that I can get through this.
@veezard
And a most importantly, "YOU are not your Mistakes."
@veezard
@intuitiveSummer6764
Hi. Everyone makes mistakes. Learn from it n move on. Don't let yourself be stuck there. Who care what people say. You just have to be strong. Love yourself and find what makes you happy. I hope things will get better sooner than later. Take care. Smile 😃
When you say "i will never be acceptable to men", first of all it is a prediction. You dont know that. You assume based on your experience, fears and shame. Secondly, you assume that all men and women are "better" than you. Have you met them? Do you know all of them? Shame is a great part of your worries. You will probably have to deal with this issue in order to live a more fulfilling life.
Hello Believe in yourself, you are a blessing. Sometimes things happen to show you , who really are your friends.
Well...........In my case I am alone and lookinfg for someone to come in my life......what you guys think of I am 43 male.....do you think i should go for having new life partner in this age or i should live my life as it is ??