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Alone on Valentines Day 😊

User Profile: enthusiasticCircle4764
enthusiasticCircle4764 February 14th, 2021

Hi Everyone Can we make a support chat for those who are wondering alone in life? Being in your 30s and feeling that every one is moving with their life but you is not easy anymore. What do you feel about this and how do you deal with your loneliness in general? I try to stay busy most of the time but with the pandemic I feel that I'm alone even that I have many people around me. It scares me that I will spend the rest of my life like this. I act positive most of the days but I feel like expressing my feelings today.

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User Profile: compassionateSpring5054j
compassionateSpring5054j February 15th, 2021

Hello, I agree it is hard. My life is such that I am 45 and due to some health issues I may be single for the rest of my life. I am accepting that as a possibility. But I have been married and I have had boyfriends living in my home and still felt incredibly lonely. I think it is worse when you are lonely in a relationship. Im looking hard for ways to integrate myself into the community, I have a pet I can’t imagine life without and I’ve identified some hobbies. I understand about feeling alone in a crowd, I think it is hard to make soulful connections casually. But there are people in my life I can put effort into connecting with- such as my nieces and nephews and I get a lot of joy from that. I end up watching a lot of comedy, drybar comedy and such...

User Profile: Oldsoul1618
Oldsoul1618 February 21st, 2021

Thats a great idea , it could also become an active community here ( 30 + and wandering alone ) i will try my vest to spread that thought .

User Profile: jayen009
jayen009 May 22nd, 2021

Well...........In my case I am alone and lookinfg for someone to come in my life......what you guys think of I am 40 male.....do you think i should go for having new life partner in this age or i should live my life as it is ??