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User Profile: hematite43
hematite43 March 11th, 2022

I'm so unhappy with where I am in my life and I don't even know how to start fixing it.

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User Profile: shyLemon880
shyLemon880 March 12th, 2022

Hi I'm having the same problem. You're definitely not alone. I think maybe it has to do with middle age. At least in my case. I'm considering talking to a life coach. I've done one thing though that made a huge difference. I've started to exercise and get fit. It really helps. At least it makes you feel good about one aspect of yourself. I'm still stuck with other issues though. Try to start with something easy that would be rewarding for you and go from there. Best of luck.

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User Profile: hematite43
hematite43 OP March 14th, 2022

@shyLemon880

I think you may be correct about these feelings being age-related. Exercise and coaching both sound like good ideas.

I went for a long walk yesterday and that helped. I think being out in open spaces is beneficial.

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User Profile: shyLemon880
shyLemon880 March 14th, 2022

Hi @hematite43


Being out and clearing your head are great remedies. I've also decided to limit my exposure to social media a little bit. It gets too overwhelming sometimes and distorts the way you see yourself and your life. I've been stuck for a long time but one step in the right direction made a world of difference to me. So, I've decided to pursue something I like, even if only for fun, and take a leap of faith. Maybe it will bring me the happiness I'm seeking. Maybe not. But I'm not happy where I'm either so I guess I've got nothing to lose. Right? Maybe you can relate to some of this. I wish you all the best.

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User Profile: tidyBalloon1373
tidyBalloon1373 March 15th, 2022

Can relate alot. Just a bit lost

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User Profile: blissfulJoy19
blissfulJoy19 March 14th, 2022

Hey there... I know things are difficult and tough for you... I've been through this phase in my life. Where, I was unhappy about everything, I thought whatever I'm doing makes no difference. I was not satisfied with everything I had and everything I was doing. So, what I did was, I took a break from everything. I had a few close friends to talk to, and I started arranging my thoughts. I decided to find the reason behind why am I feeling this way, and what do I genuinely wanna do. I took time for myself. Sometimes, taking a break from everything really helps. I did talk about these things with my family and friends, and that did seem to help and work for me. If you think you need someone to confide in, I am here for you. I'll gladly listen. I hope things work out your way. Stay strong 💕

User Profile: tidyBalloon1373
tidyBalloon1373 March 15th, 2022

Yeh I'm the same. A stay at home mum for 11yrs now need to change everything. No friends, no hobbyS, life just feels like one big NOTHING 🙄

User Profile: spongebob2021
spongebob2021 March 15th, 2022

@hematite43

Have you tried the 7Cups chat rooms for support ?

I am extending a invitation to the 7Cups Sharing Circle chat room.