Never marry someone out of pity
Esp. if you know beforehand that s/he has a mental illness. You probably are an empath, a good person, and you think it's your yoke, so you "sacrifice". BUT you'll regret it for the rest of your "life" --I mean living hell. Mark my words. Don't make the same mistake I did 5 years ago :)
Yes very true! We think we're going to be the one to "save them", and be such an amazing and wonderful partner that they will change an become a new happier, stable person. 😂
Sorry, It's not going to happen. People don't change...we'll maybe they will change YOU for the worse after going through traumas they cause you...but it won't be for the better.
Yes that's right marry person whom you love not for empathy
Unfortunate but true. Thanks for sharing. You are not alone.