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User Profile: Nightfrost
Nightfrost April 24th, 2022

I joined interest groups on social app several weeks ago. It should make me have a good time, because members there share the same interest. So it did. What's more, I got several people from the groups into my friend list.

Then with time going by, I have less and less to talk with those in the groups, whether in my friend list or not.

It's not that I have lose interest in that fandom. But I just become bored, even bored enough to check the messages of the groups again and again, and then log out. finally without saying anything.


From time to time I wonder whether I should quit the groups and whether it's worthwhile to keep the people from the groups in my friend list..

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User Profile: hopezzy
hopezzy April 24th, 2022
Hi @Nightfrost You can ask yourself why you lost interest in that and what is it which interested you the most in the beginning. And similar questions to understand yourself better why you don't feel the connection again. It's normal for people to become bored after a certain time or if they find any new interests that are more engaging than this. In my opinion, Give yourself some time, ask yourself questions and then decide (:
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User Profile: Nightfrost
Nightfrost OP April 24th, 2022

@hopezzy

Sorry, it seems that you got things wrong. I am still interested in that thing, but the groups and the people make me bored.

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User Profile: hopezzy
hopezzy April 24th, 2022

@Nightfrost oh, I am sorry I thought it was the interest. If you are losing interest in the people then I think you should do what makes you feel better. Sometimes on social media, we may have 1000 people but we have good relationships with few people.

Try to have different interactions with them and find how you feel about it

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