how to get over it..
10 years friends, 2 of them we’re together as a couple, and the man I thought I would knew, threw me away like garbage and ghost me. 2 months later we speak again, we chat, we laugh, and 1 week later he gnosted me again, spending 24h a day chatting on viber.. It’s obvious he talks to another women.. but how can someone do this to someone he knew so long, and supposed to loved me, why could he tell me like a human explain what happend, tell me that he has a new women, how could me through me away like that? I cannot get over him and all this situation.. I had him in my life for a decade, know I must learn to live without him..I cannot eat for days, I’m a wreck, dead inside.. Few days ago I have wrote him a couple of messages, tell him how much I love him, he didn’t react.. I feel so useless and lost..
why not stop talking to him and cut him off completely because he has shown many times that he doesnt value you as more than time filler when he doesnt have anyone and he drops you the moment he find someone.
@aquaTriangle4751
If this isn't ordinary behaviour for him, maybe something is wrong in his life
@aquaTriangle4751 what hurts most is that they don't know that it's hard to leave them, at times I think life is just like that, but hey, I admire your courage, maybe I don't know how you feel because am not you, but trust me, I know you are a strong brilliant smart lady, I have no doubts on that because I relate so much, moving on ain't gonna be easy, but it's going to be the best decision you will ever make, the most important thing is that you tried
It sounds like he doesnt value you so dont waste your time on him it doesnt sound like hes the right one. You should talk to him about this and open up how you're feeling and I would ask him why he kept ghosting you .N one deserves to be ignored without an explanation.You can try contacting him again or write him a letter. I hope things go well for you 🙏
