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User Profile: Givingemdablues
Givingemdablues August 28th, 2021

I'm 42 years old, twice divorced with 3 kids, 22, 21, and 18. I am dealing with a recent breakup because of my Abandonment issues and the fact that I don't have real friends to count on. Plus, he left me in a financial bind and is still trying to be my friend. We work together also which makes this even harder to deal with. I need help. I'm tired of crying.

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User Profile: Remina
Remina August 28th, 2021

@Givingemdablues

Hey there. Nice to meet you. I am sorry to hear about what is going on. I can understand how it would be upsetting of a situation to be in. I am glad that you have decided to join a subcommunity and to share with us what you are going through. I hope you get what you are seeking from us. Let us know how we can best offer you the support that you deserve. You are valid.

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User Profile: Givingemdablues
Givingemdablues OP August 28th, 2021

Thanks me too!

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User Profile: Remina
Remina August 30th, 2021

@Givingemdablues

You're welcome!

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Givingemdablues OP August 28th, 2021

Thanks. Me too!

User Profile: Lasweetbaby34
Lasweetbaby34 September 2nd, 2021

Hello,

I’m so sorry to hear about your situation, I’m also a mother of 4 kids i have 2 boys and 2 girls ages 20, 18, 15, 13 and for me is really hard to be a mom and do everything. The difference with me is that my partner is living with me but doesn’t even care to help me out with anything, so I’m mainly the one with all the financial responsibilities and every day I feel like i want to pull my hairs out and just start crying every single day. I also have no friends to reach out to I sure do have family buy none of them are never there for me, so I suffer from major depression, anxiety, and other medical health issues. I know it might seem like just because we have kids and they might be old enough they need to be there for us, but in most circumstances that is not the case. Having kids as teenagers is very hard because sometimes they are doing their own thing that they never have time for us their parents. Believe me I cry everyday and wonder why I’m even here if it seems like nobody cares for me. So I either be in this website to see if I can find help our just be in my room alone away from everyone. Trust me I know the feeling having a partner that was there for you once, but is not there for you anymore so you feel completely alone trap in your own little world. :(