Starting my life over and feeling like I don't belong here my life has been one big mistake but God is my only friend was
I need to get a different perspective on life from someone else's point of view I am struggling with life and I don't want to be a failure any more evidently there's a purpose I'm here but I don't know what for because I never do anything right and I'm wanting to be that person I was supposed to be from the beginning but never was able to achieve it so hopefully I can make changes and be that person I don't want to be a failure any more I want to be someone and have friends and be loved and have someone who cares about me and visa versa I don't want to be a failure any more
@Jaylybbert1
. I felt similar hitting this decade of life. Not easy but I go to a therapist weekly and that's helped give me some ideas to find new direction . I'm dealing with some pretty awful trauma so it's been difficult. I made a list of all the things I like to do and I reconnected with some former work friends. It's taken me a few years to redirect myself but dedication to myself and my happiness has helped. I don't give up easily.
You can redefine your life, make a list and take action. If you can go to therapy I really recommend it.
I hope my post helped a little, just remember your not alone even if it feels that way.
Best always ABB
@Jaylybbert1
Hello Jaylybbert1, sorry to hear that you look at yourself like a failure.
Sometimes to do the best we can is all that is possible to do and surely failures happen to everyone but none of them define who we are.
I understand that it can be frustrating when things don't go the way we expected them to, I would hope you can be helped to look at yourself with different eyes, with no-judgment.
To have a chat with a listener maybe can help too, you can select your topic and find one on HERE
Best wishes!
This is me right now. It’s easy to give in to the negative thoughts. Download a positive affirmations app to give yourself a daily boost of energy. Don’t hold too high expectations and be proud of yourself that you made it here. You’re strong and you’re worthy. I tell myself this everyday. I hope you are okay.
