50+ community Check-in December 21-24, 2020
Happy Monday everyone, I hope you’re having a wonderful day 
What is your best memory of this year?
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Merry Christmas my Anus! I can't wait for this bullshit holiday FO! I have no means and no good cheer. I don't even get love...
@bgdave
I understand you are not feeling well but would appreciate if you use a language that is more apropriate when writing to others. I am sorry but I do not want to read about certain bodyparts or what you could do with them. Please, you are free to tell us how you feel and we'll do our best to support you, but mind your language.
Take care//
Sunrise
I'm feeling a little sad and anxious today. I'm anxious that my spouse will be anxious and angry due to holiday stress. I worrying about things that have not yet happened. I feel overwhelmed not able to decide what to do. The clutter here is swallowing me up. I'm a little sad because I said my goodbyes to my therapist and will be on my own with my problems now. And I feel guilt for not having planned ahead and sent gifts to mom or sister. Sorry just venting feelings today. I hear neighbors laughing outside maybe playing football in the snow? But I sit paralyzed with indecision on what to do
@HappyDucky8
I am so sorry that you're feeling so anxious and are dealing with such worries, hugs. Many people associate Christmas with giving gifts but for some the greatest gift could be just to spend some time with them, even if it is only on the phone or doing facetime. Maybe calling them to let them know how much you appreciate them would be an option?
Sorry to hear about that your therapist sessions ended, we are here for you , to chat and for some comfort.