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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 August 23rd, 2019

Hello everyone laugh. How was your week?

Today's question is:

How would you describe a mindful day?

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User Profile: MeaningfulSilence
MeaningfulSilence August 23rd, 2019

@amiablePeace77

Hello and happy Friday!

Oh well...enjoying a place like the mountain where i am at the moment...yay!!

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP August 27th, 2019

@BeyondTheInvisible

Nice Beyond! laugh

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings August 23rd, 2019

@amiablePeace77 to me a mindful day is one where I start out connecting to my body and my breathing. Then as I eat I pay close attention to what I am eating and how it makes me feel later on.

I try to have a rough plan for the day. AM exercise classes PM 7cups discussions and PMs Evening read and shower and start to slow down. Anything that needs to be done goes on my phone calendar so I get gentle reminders.

whenever I feel beaten down I stop and tune into myself and feel the inner connection.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP August 23rd, 2019

@soulsings

That is a very mindful plan for the day. I like in particular that you pointed out about eating and how it makes you feel because food impacts our moods, it can make us feel well but also hyper up to miserable. So something to look at. Thanks for sharing.

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User Profile: Favor2020
Favor2020 August 24th, 2019

A mindful day for me would be when, I am one

with my God and everything that I am doing brings glorification to His name and not so much as to my own name

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP August 27th, 2019

@Favor2020

You found your anchor, I am happy for you smiley

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User Profile: stressBear
stressBear August 25th, 2019

@amiablePeace77 It's been a rather uneventful week, which is just fine compared to some of the eventful weeks we've had lately. A week when nobody ends up in the ER is at least not a bad week. I haven't gotten much done, though.

As for a "mindful day", I guess I'd have to describe that as "exceedingly rare". I'm pretty sure the longest I've been able to stay mindful is about an hour. Three or four if you count time spent driving. I can concentrate on something, like a book or a programming task, for longer than that, but that's flow rather than mindfullness.

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User Profile: MrCalidan
MrCalidan August 25th, 2019

@stressBear here's to more uneventful weeks!

User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP August 27th, 2019

@stressBear

Hope you will have more of those weeks!

I find mindfulness is something we are slipping in with time and practise. It helps me to meditate and sometimes just stop during the day and ground myself.

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User Profile: Chickadee123
Chickadee123 August 25th, 2019

I start each day with a reading - two different books as one or the other will have something meaningful for me. Then I drink coffee, say a prayer, and take my medications. As I grow older the med pile grows as well.....laugh and sigh.

I have survived week 5 on new job. I have been discouraged as I cannot keep up. Fast paced mfg job. Week 5 went a bit better. Got some hope to survive week 6.

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User Profile: shyCat542
shyCat542 August 25th, 2019

@Chickadee123

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User Profile: shyCat542
shyCat542 August 25th, 2019

You are all my friends. I enjoy being here even though I dont participate. Thanks for sharing your thoughts here.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP August 27th, 2019

@shyCat542

Cat, you are very appreciated laugh heart

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP August 27th, 2019

@Chickadee123

Sometimes it's just the best thing to laugh about what happened, just take it with a spoon full of humour and a big sigh, let it go.

You made it already for 5 weeks, hope week 6 will be easier. 🤞

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User Profile: MrCalidan
MrCalidan August 25th, 2019

@amiablePeace77 Mindful for me is being aware of the moment. Not super-vigilant racing anxious. But just being aware.

I find it with a few deep breaths.

I also find it on a relaxing drive.

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amiablePeace77 OP August 27th, 2019

@MrCalidan

Awesome MrCalidan!

What's your fav drive (where you go)?

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User Profile: Lauren63
Lauren63 August 25th, 2019

My week was ok. Ended with me having to deal with the new temp. Kinda exhausting to have to train the new person on their first day. I guess I have learned something about mindfulness, because today I had a grad party to attend. I got a little panicky with all the people, but I stopped and took a few deep breaths. Then went and talked to some of the people I know. Mingling really isnt my thing, but I made it.

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings August 25th, 2019

@Lauren63 sounds like you made a win out of a challenging situation. Way to go.

User Profile: MrCalidan
MrCalidan August 25th, 2019

@Lauren63 training new hires is often tiring. Well done making it through the event.

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User Profile: shyCat542
shyCat542 August 27th, 2019

Mindfulness for me is being able to listen to what someone is saying to me without interrupting them.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP August 27th, 2019

@shyCat542

I agree, mindful listening means let the other person finish.

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User Profile: shyCat542
shyCat542 August 28th, 2019

Thank you@amiablePeace77. I needed to hear that. Let the other person finish!

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP August 30th, 2019

@shyCat542

Cat, I need to remember that too sometimes.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP August 27th, 2019

@Lauren63

Lauren, awesome. You can really be proud of yourself, it is not so easy to get out of our comfort zones, you did well!

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