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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 May 3rd, 2025


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Hello and welcome to the 50+ community 😊. Glad to have you here with us! 

Please feel free to post a little introduction to yourself.

I look forward to seeing you in the forums.

What is one of your favorite ways to reenergize?



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User Profile: WharfRat
WharfRat May 4th, 2025

I could use some suggestions.


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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP May 5th, 2025

@WharfRat

One of my favorite ways to reenergize is going for a walk and watching something funny!

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User Profile: carelady
carelady May 6th, 2025

Reenergize...Reading or listening to something motivating in an area of interest. Listening to music. A cup of coffee. A view of small animals such as birds, squirrels, in their natural environment. The view of grass, trees and vegetation in the variety of seasons. The connection with a loved one or stranger. May your day be filled with energy as we encourage the countenance of another. Thank you for this topic.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP May 6th, 2025

@carelady

Sounds wonderful!

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User Profile: Shaky60
Shaky60 May 6th, 2025

Hi,


I found 7cups looking for a place to chat with people. For the last 4 months I have mostly been alone in the house. In a nutshell:

Due to issues with my back, I have not been physically able to do much of anything. In April I had my third back surgery. My back feels much better after almost three years in pain.


After 30 years of marriage I am getting divorced. I know it sucks but it is actually good for both of us. It is amicable and since we don’t have a lot, we have avoided all the crap that could be part of the divorce.


My daughter lives with me and she uses my car to get to work. Her work schedule is such that I am not able to go anywhere while she is working.


In 2019 I was diagnosed with Parkinson’s Disease. As a result I have all but given up on my woodworking and photography. Though I am trying to not let it stop me, I am none the less discouraged.



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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP May 6th, 2025

@Shaky60

I can only imagine how hard it must have been and still might be to adjust to not being able to do things you liked in life. So sorry to hear about your diagnosis. There are many things you can do here like participating in discussions or other events. Here are some links that might be helpful

You can browse for a listener. https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ 

You may also find these helpful https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php (Loneliness support opens usually Mondays and Tuesdays)

You will find the discussion schedule for 50+ and mindfulness here

https://www.7cups.com/forum/50OverCommunity_193/TeamToolsandTeamUpdates_1705/50plusDiscussionsScheduleandTopics_207920/

Have you thought about contacting a Parkinson's disease groups online?

I hope this helps.

Btw. I just wanted to say how much I respect you for ending your marriage in an amicable way!

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 May 8th, 2025

@amiablePeace77 I'm a listener, I came on seven cups because I could see how increasingly lonely people were becoming and I wanted to spread some light in the darkness 🥰 What reenergises me is:

Music.

Football.

Prayer.

Family.

Acknowledgment of how I feel.

Long walks.

Fresh air.


The beauty of nature.

Self awareness.

Practicing daily gratitude 💜

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amiablePeace77 OP May 8th, 2025

@Amanda84

Thank you very much for sharing these great activities to feel better!

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Amanda84 May 8th, 2025

@amiablePeace77 💜

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User Profile: DemiMondaine
DemiMondaine May 13th, 2025

Hello @amiablepeace, and welcome to all new listeners here in May. I've joined this month as I have both the time and capacity to take this on. My favourite way to re-energise is through yoga nidra; it is genuinely like getting two hours' sleep in fifteen minutes. If you haven't tried it I can wholeheartedly recommend it. Anyway, am looking forward to meeting you all.

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP May 14th, 2025

@DemiMondaine

Great that you joined the listener team here! I hope you will have a great time here. Helping others can be very rewarding!

Yoga Nidra 👍

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User Profile: DemiMondaine
DemiMondaine May 14th, 2025

@amiablePeace77 thank you for making me feel welcome to the group!

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User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP May 14th, 2025

@DemiMondaine

You are very welcome! Here is a link to the 50+ and mindfulness discussions, a great way to meet others on the site  https://www.7cups.com/forum/50plus/QAsDiscussionsResources_1770/50plusDiscussionsandTopicsFebruarytoMarch2024_207920/

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User Profile: courageousLemon182
courageousLemon182 May 22nd, 2025

@amiablePeace77

Hello. I’m 60 years old and currently living in a bustling multi-generational household. This transition has been nearly three years, and I share my home with my child, two wonderful grandchildren, their partner, and our beloved furry family member, Samuel, our German Shepherd.


One of the most cherished ways to recharge is by stepping away to a peaceful space where I can immerse myself in meditation. It allows me to fully embrace those precious moments of tranquility, which are so important amidst the busy family life.

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amiablePeace77 OP May 22nd, 2025

@courageousLemon182

 Good that you can step away from all the busyness and recharge!

User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 June 18th, 2025

@courageousLemon182 a warm welcome to seven cups 💜🥰

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courageousLemon182 May 22nd, 2025

@amiablePeace77

I truly believe that 7Cups is a wonderful platform for those who need support, resources and more.  I am so happy to be back on this platform and giving it more of my time through so many changes in this world of chaos. 

Although I live in a busy and multi-functional home, I often find myself feeling lonely since I don’t have an active social life. I work about 35 hours a week from home, which can get isolating, especially as I'm unable to work on-site due to health issues. I have an upcoming knee replacement surgery, and I’m feeling a mix of anxiety and hope. Living in pain for so long has taken so much from me, and I long for the day when I can move more freely.


My grandchildren bring joy and energy into my life, keeping me busy in the best way possible. Still, I yearn for the ability to do even more and to live without pain. My home can sometimes feel chaotic, particularly with several family members managing their own health challenges. While this complicates our lives, my love for them is unwavering. There are many things beyond my control, and I find myself leaning into patience and providing support whenever I can.


I often feel exhausted from balancing work and home responsibilities, but I keep pushing forward the best I can. I'm looking ahead to retirement in five years after working for more than 45 years to my career. Unfortunately those years are not with one company or organization. I have the years but not the age yet to retire yet. It will be a time for me to prioritize my well-being and rediscover what brings me joy, all while cherishing those moments with my grandchildren even more.

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amiablePeace77 OP May 22nd, 2025

@courageousLemon182

It's understandable that you look forward to your retirement to let go of all the pressure you experience now. Hopefully the knee surgery will turn out great and you will be able to move around freely. It might be a good opportunity to join a club or classes what would allow you to establish a social life. While it is great to be around loved ones it's simply healthy to mix with others outside our "tribe" as well, hear different opinions and exchange information or just discuss certain topics. 

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User Profile: courageousLemon182
courageousLemon182 May 23rd, 2025

Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts. I completely agree with you; becoming involved with social groups can be such a meaningful and supportive way to connect with others.

After my surgery and the recovery process, I can move around more and enjoy activities at the library and other community center activities. This is something that I am looking forward to.

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User Profile: Mishka1599
Mishka1599 May 22nd, 2025

Can I please be added to this community?

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amiablePeace77 OP May 22nd, 2025

@Mishka1599

Of course and with pleasure! Mishka can you please add your name here so you will be added to taglist? This is to have a correct overview who is added or removed. Thank you.

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User Profile: KindKitty2213
KindKitty2213 May 25th, 2025

@amiablePeace77

Hello Ami, thank you for the warm friendly email 😊  
I joined 7cups five years ago because I saw & heard about so many people feeling practically paralyzed with fear about Covid.  But after only a few days my life got ridiculously busy again and I couldn’t continue.  
Having come back now, I’ve applied to change my name, which was one of three offered to me back then (I thought I had to pick one of them) and has an unfortunate order of numerals which I hadn’t noticed at the time.
I’ve ‘listened’ in a total of 3 chats (two were fine and the third was amazing); I’m trying to read more of the material at 7cups before taking a 4th chat request.
To your question, mine are three:
1) my treadmill where I build up to a (kind of wussy) 3.4 mph and then com back down;
2) go outside and mess around; and
3) pull back the lounger feature on the couch and take a 20 to 40 minute nap (I don’t usually fall asleep but just that relaxation of the muscles brings, in very little time, a delicious calming sense of wellbeing and …communion).
Best wishes for your long weekend and thanks again so much for the welcome,
Kitty🌷

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amiablePeace77 OP May 28th, 2025

@KindKitty2213

A big welcome back to you! 😃

Treadmills can be quite challenging but also good for cardio training! Spending time outside or just relaxing on the lounge chair sounds wonderful!

Did you see this link? Spring into April! Listener Discussions & Check-Ins - Discussion | 7 Cups


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User Profile: reservedOwl321
reservedOwl321 May 30th, 2025

Hello,

I'm nearing 50, so I hope it's ok to be here. Really glad to have found this site. I seem to be perpetually trying to work on or better myself. I am a married working mom to adult and teen children. I have 3 children and the youngest will be 15 this year. Teenagers! They keep me busy enough, but also sort of keep me young

I love to keep busy and enjoy traveling, reading, cooking, gardening and biking to name a few.

What reenergize me! Well... I guess coffee or sleep. I journal especially if I am feeling down or stressed and brainstorm ways I can make the day better. I love motivational audiobooks like Tony Robbins while I walk or bike.

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 June 18th, 2025

@reservedOwl321 a warm welcome to seven cups 💜🥰

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