Addicted to risqué manga and occasionally porn
Last year my wife discovered that I read trashy and risqué manga (Japanese comic books for you normies) we had a huge argument about it. I promised never to read it again and to be transparent with her. Recently we had a baby and during post partum we had zero intimacy. It was then I started reading again and started looking at even regular porn, something I haven’t done in years. She discovered my secret and now I’ve been banished to the guest bedroom. She’s even hesitant to have me help care for our child. What can I do?? Help I don’t want this!
Hi quiet, it sounds that this is your way to cope with things and has been away for some time. When you have no instance it sounds that you go back to it. It might be better to have a discussion about how this has been impacting you as well.