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Feeling empty and behind

User Profile: brightPine4459
brightPine4459 March 24th, 2024

I'm 20 and I feeling feeling empty and behind from my friends, classmates, or everything arounds me. And yesterday I had watched a youtube video saying that "Acquire, don't follow, trust yourself". Which makes me realize that I'm always been wanting validation from others and I follow principles of my favorite influencer, thinking that they are right. Yes they are right on their own terms, but I realized I need to try experience life and makes my own meaning, principles in life, and be my authentic self.


I want to hear your side, what do you think? 💛

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 March 24th, 2024

@brightPine4459

When we feel behind I ask myself in whose eyes....

Who is keeping score and how does that work.? ... for example a person who has money in bank but never does anything...... vs someone  who has a wealth of experiences and stories of adventure....   see it depends on ones view of who is behind. 

You are correct to follow your own trail not thinking doing things some "influencer" suggests..... you will always follow rather then lead your life and path.....