Love addiction
Hi, I’m addicted to being in a relationship with someone even when they are verbally abusive and physically abusive to me it’s like a trauma bond or a cycle that I am not able to break the last two boyfriends have been one physically abusive, and this last one verbally, abusive only How do I break my love addiction I have talked to therapist and they said the only way to do it is no contact but that’s like cutting the drug cold turkey does anyone have any thoughts?
@spenrose
Interesting dilemma .... i am not sure picking bad people is an addiction.
Is it more a self esteem thing believing these abusers are the best you can do.... I will agree if you are only the being with your past BF's then no contact helps...
I think you are looking for more........... like not continuing to pick bad partners. I find guys who are like this often come across as charming and know what to say. YOU deserve better and when you really see that you will make better choices or leave anyone who is less then worthy of being with you.