Have a loved one struggling with addiction?

My mom, dad and brother all struggle with addiction. My mom actually lives with me. It is so hard! None of them think they have a problem, so none will seek help! It’s hard feeling like you are more the parent!

New here...my husband and I have been together almost 10 years and have 3 kids together. We got married after 3 years together. I knew my husband had occasionally viewed porn, but I had asked him to stop before I agreed to marriage and he agreed. Fast forward and its popped up numerous times throughout the years. He always says it's not an issue but I've seen him view it before being intimate with me and after. He's turned down sex with me and then viewed pictures or videos of other girls on tiktok and Twitter. I found out while I was in hospital having our last child he trying to access onlyfans while we were in the hospital. He swears its not an issue, yet when I tell him how it upsets me he calls me childish for having an issue with it. I've also caught him viewing girls tiktok videos who have clearly stated they are under 18yrs old, and he still views them saying 17 is fine, and "ass is ass to men". I feel like I'm at a loss anymore. I've tried to help him thru this but if he truly doesn't see it as an issue I don't feel like I'm left with much to do besides tolerate it or leave. I can't tolerate it. The stress and anxiety of it is affecting my health. I've lost weight, loosing my hair, don't sleep. I need help thru this