I'm addicted to fetishes.
It's been around 5 years. After my ex cheated on me I tried to cope with it. And eventually I got into Humiliation porn. And that eventually led me to sph, cuckold. Lately I do way to risky things to try to satisfy myself. I cant stop myself from touching myself.
It's totally normal to have a fetish! I know fetishes are stigmatized by some people, but think about this, what is really so bad? You're not harming anyone, all people who take part in this sort of things are consensual adults. You simply take pleasure from different things than other people, but that's ok, who says that something is wrong just because it concerns a minority of people? Being relatively few doesn't mean being abnormal or wrong. You like what you like, The people in the videos you watch feel the same as you, and consensually participate. As long as everything in consensual and desirable for all people involved, there's nothing wrong. Don't let people's prejudice take pleasure away from you.
@Aayla of course, it's true as long as it doesn't become an addiction that prevents you from living a healthy everyday life. In that case, the problem is still not the fetish itself, but the addiciton, which can be taken care of like all kinds of addiciton, and of course reaching out for help in case you don't feel good with yourself is great! It's all about finding a balance with what you like (which is in itself ok) and an healthy life.
@Latin24guy
Honestly BDSM themed kinks are lotsa fun! And as long as its also fun for you and you stay safe, theres nothing wrong about it.
But the thing is that at least at me, it was kinda forced. I was sexually abused like hell as a kid, hardcore bdsm kinda became a coping mechanism later in my life. It freaked me a long time that i like to get off the ways I was abused basically ( safely and with consent of course )
it makes me feel quite guilty at times. I cant really get off unless some aspect of bdsm (restains, orgasm denial, edging, ropes, being dominated and at mercy) is involved.
I told my sexuologist, but he was like thats alright so.. i guess it isnt that bad and maybe i shouldnt worry at all?
I guess we are ok by my doctor, haha.
