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Hi im jill and I am in 8th grade i am 13

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jillovo October 22nd, 2025

Hello i'm kind of new this so sorry if my post is kind of well bad but i'm someone with ADHD who can't take their meds because their parents don't want them too i have trouble sleeping and I also have trouble focusing I have trouble Not flailing my arms around because I'm over stimulated And I also have a problem with talking to My parents or anyone else about my mental state does anyone know how to help me with that Or does anyone share the same Thing with me?

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 October 23rd, 2025

@shadowbonnie

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Welcome to seven cups 💜 🥰 

It's nice to have you here.

I'm sorry you feel you cannot talk to your parents.

It can be a difficult time trying to process what you are going through.

It might help to talk to a trusted teacher.

Remember you are not less.

You might need to find coping strategies to help when you are overstimulated, like putting in headphones and listening to music.

This can also help with sleep, as can lavender spray.

💜💕

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jillovo OP October 27th, 2025

@Amanda84 thank you

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Amanda84 October 27th, 2025

@shadowbonnie

A pleasure 💜 

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Amanda84 November 4th, 2025

@shadowbonnie

Is your user name influenced by Five nights at Freddy's? 🥰

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jillovo OP November 14th, 2025

@Amanda84 yes 😀

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Amanda84 November 14th, 2025

@shadowbonnie

I love it 😁

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jillovo OP December 2nd, 2025

@Amanda84 tyyyyyy🥰

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User Profile: Magicpawsoffuture
Magicpawsoffuture October 27th, 2025

@shadowbonnie

welcome to cups

i hope u find what u need here.

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jillovo OP November 3rd, 2025

@Heartsandrosesandpaws thank you

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User Profile: Priyapjw1
Priyapjw1 November 4th, 2025

@shadowbonnieHi, it sounds like you’re dealing with a lot right now. Having ADHD without support or medication can make sleep, focus, and overstimulation really challenging. It makes sense that talking to your parents or others about how you feel is hard, especially if you’ve struggled to be heard before. You’re not alone in this, and it’s really brave of you to reach out and share what’s going on.

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jillovo OP November 14th, 2025

@Priyapjw1 thank you 😊

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User Profile: Alwaysphil1
Alwaysphil1 November 14th, 2025

You are a brave girl. I suggest you do what you can to educate yourself and your parents on ADHD. It might help to know that at least 50% of individuals with ADHD have at least one parent with it as well. It can also go undiagnosed, as mine was missed for 20 years and yes, I have a daughter who was diagnosed. She’s doing great but the point is that many parents don’t know what ADHD is. I was one of them. A perfect example of a parent who needed educated.

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jillovo OP December 2nd, 2025

@Alwaysphil1 ty

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Magicpawsoffuture December 20th, 2025

@jillovo

welcome to cups 

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Magicpawsoffuture December 20th, 2025

Opsssss wrong theard  my  bad

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jillovo OP January 8th

@Magicpawsoffuture op ok lol

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User Profile: AffyAvo
AffyAvo December 20th, 2025

@jillovo You're saying you can't take your medications. Does that mean a medical provider has prescribed some? If so, can someone from he clinic talk to your parents? They might be more accepting hearing about it from a professional. 

If not, are you able to access any resources to help you with non-medication strategies for better managing? Maybe the guidance counsellors at school can help you with any relevant help.

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decisivePear4241 December 22nd, 2025

Hi I share the exact same thing

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turquoiseWater2122 December 24th, 2025

You can go for therapy near your home for counselling