I keep hurting the people I love
I keep hurting my best friends by trying to relate to them so much that they feel like I'm making it about me. I dont know why I keep doing this even though I've been working on thiss in therapy for a year also if you end up reading this I really am sorry.
@PicklesANDOcean4ever
and I know that we know that we've not had to like make up or anything but I hurt you and I'm sorry
@PicklesANDOcean4ever Hey,no need to be sorry! It's not your fault. Thank you for sharing something so important,it can take a lot of courage and effort <3
don’t be sorry we are here for you!
don’t be sorry we are here for you!
@PicklesANDOcean4ever
(BTW I was talking to my friend and saying sorry he just barely joined cups)
i know how u feel i lost all my friends but it worked out because i found new ones that understand how my brain works
I totally understand, we try to relate to others so bad, so they know we are on there side. So they know we Know how they feel. To Let them know we understand.
That we will sit beside them in the ‘hole’ that they are in, so they are not alone. Because we wish someone would sit with us.. and we desperately don’t want them to feel alone like we have before.
I’m trying to teach myself too, to just be present. Be still and silence. To just listen and sit with them a wile. Somtimes they don’t need our empathy. Somtimes people just need us to be present.
It’s hard tho.. ❤️ just think, there issue, sadness, situation is a big black hole. They don’t want us to tell them how we have fallen in before, or how we got out. Somtimes we just need to sit with them for a wile. Holding there hand.. Wile they figure it out.
I totally understand, we try to relate to others so bad, so they know we are on there side. So they know we Know how they feel. To Let them know we understand.
That we will sit beside them in the ‘hole’ that they are in, so they are not alone. Because we wish someone would sit with us.. and we desperately don’t want them to feel alone like we have before.
I’m trying to teach myself too, to just be present. Be still and silence. To just listen and sit with them a wile. Somtimes they don’t need our empathy. Somtimes people just need us to be present.
It’s hard tho.. ❤️ just think, there issue, sadness, situation is a big black hole. They don’t want us to tell them how we have fallen in before, or how we got out. Somtimes we just need to sit with them for a wile. Holding there hand.. Wile they figure it out.
