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How do you deal with overthinking?

User Profile: bestBalsam5454
bestBalsam5454 May 4th, 2023

I’m prone to overthinking my problems until they’re bigger than they need to be (ie dreading talking to someone who I have an issue with or making an appointment over the phone). Other times, I have a hard time letting things that have happened go (ie I keep wondering if I could have done something differently or how I’ll avoid similar situations in the future).

Sometimes just distracting myself with a music or a tv show is enough to interrupt the runaway train of thought. Unfortunately, this only seems to work so well/last so long.

How do you deal with/experience overthinking?

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User Profile: Barltik2065
Barltik2065 May 4th, 2023
@bestBalsam5454

I have the same exact issue.

Structure is my comfort. Boarders or zones are what keep me balanced.

So I create "To do lists"
Structure, when I complete the task. I check it off. Once it is checked, I move on to the next. It is the rule.
Boarders, zones, boundaries come into play in regards to letting go. I derived an analytical approach to determine it's impact in my life, attempt to apply ethic and moral standards. Then see where it lies within my boarders. If it does fit, then I move on.
K.I.S.S. = Keep It Stupidly Simple.
The key is developing these habits for you. Knowing when to alter them mildly as we grow, but following the rules.
Lastly, you will make mistakes. We are human. When it happens acknowledge and learn from the mistake. Don't beat yourself up on it. Take notes, do best to understand, move on.

User Profile: brightApple51
brightApple51 May 4th, 2023

@bestBalsam5454 Hi Balsam.. yes overthinking and letting things go is something which can affect all f us; finding coping/managing/resolution to this can provide relief as well as a possibiity to move on from issue ; to answer your question the ways I deal with overthinking is to discuss my issue is by talking therapy via family/friends/dr/therapist-- also holistic time in nature/exercising and self care can help regulate our thoughts etc.. letting things go- yes in hindsight we can think and wish that we had said something in a different way etc / however this is the past- how we can address this now is what matters- talking helps also discussing how we truly feel if able to with the person, acceptance is also key :) hope this helps...