AT LOSS OF WORDS.......
It's about listener......I thought I got a person who really is really empathetic and kind.But he ended up blaming me for what I shared.....he wanted to share something......I replied it's your personal I really don't want to know......just wanted to be heard here......he asked me to go to therapist or councilor tbh......I had really good listeners before.But now.....I feel even taken a back to even reach for help
@indigoJet9448
I'm sorry you ran into a listener like that. The truth is, some people genuinely want to help, but they can't always control how they feel. Don't take it personally. You can leave feedback about him to help others. And you can definitely find good listeners here. Hang in there!
@Voodvins ok I won't. i just wanted to help him too. But I turned out this way. I know there r listeners who genuinely want to help. I don't blame him but I just got hurt....thank you.
@indigoJet9448
Sometimes people aren't angry at us, but at the situation they find themselves in. So his reaction isn't necessarily directed at you. And you did the right thing, even though, as a listener, he shouldn't have been venting his problems to you. So I hope your future conversations will go better.
@Voodvins Thank you
@indigoJet9448
Goodness. I am sorry you had to experience that. I hope you left an honest review.