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Anxiety over everything

User Profile: Caitlyn1993
Caitlyn1993 December 7th, 2022

These past 2 months have been nothing but anxiety. I had to move, which I found a place, then my second job all a sudden has no hours yet for me, and I'm sitting here thinking 'I only work weekends for them and they need the weekend help. What am I doing wrong?' I had so much saved in my savings and now I've had to touch so much of it due to working hours on both jobs being different since this summer. I can't even think straight anymore and trying to explain this to the boyfriend who doesn't understand anxiety and other mental health issues much, is not helping. I'm scared and disappointed in myself that my savings is decreasing in money instead of increasing. All I hear is 'you should not be going out at night and this and that's from family in my head. I don't even go out. I go to work literally every day (until second job gave me no hours), do school work, and go to friends from time to time. I just feel so overwhelmed and can't handle it. 😭😭😭😭

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User Profile: fruityPond7887
fruityPond7887 December 12th, 2022

@Caitlyn1993 Hi Caitlyn! I hope you're doing well. I am sorry to hear about everything you are going through. I know how stressful it can be when a job lowers your hours and you are starting to worry about money. I want you to know that you are doing an amazing job and that you are such a hard worker! I hope you are able to maybe sit down with your boyfriend and explain to him how you are feeling without judgment from him. Remember, you can always connect with a Listener as well! We are always here for you!

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User Profile: Caitlyn1993
Caitlyn1993 OP December 12th, 2022

I been trying but people seem to be busy

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User Profile: fruityPond7887
fruityPond7887 December 12th, 2022

@Caitlyn1993 I understand that and I am sorry to hear you haven't been able to connect with a Listener. If you would like you can join the general request queue or you can browse for a Listener here. It may be helpful to message a few Listeners! I hope this helps! 💕

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User Profile: Caitlyn1993
Caitlyn1993 OP December 12th, 2022

I tried

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User Profile: fruityPond7887
fruityPond7887 December 12th, 2022

@Caitlyn1993 There are so many wonderful listeners out there, but it may take some time to find one that you connect with, especially right now with a lot of people celebrating the holidays and being busy. We also have some great support rooms! You can find them here. We also have a great support initiative going on right now called Huddles. You can find more information here! I hope you are able to look into these and find they are helpful! Good luck!

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