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User Profile: vibewithlife
vibewithlife August 12th, 2024

Hey everyone! I'm 22 years old and I just completed my master's degree but still unable to find any good job and this search has been exhausting. For 22 years my parents took care of me, fed me, loved me, paid my tution fees and still after all this I can't even get a job when everyone around me is doing something meaningful with their life I'm stuck. I even broke up my 2years relationship a week ago. This anxiety is making me to give up on hope and everything. Maybe I can't do anything in my life. I'm so tired and I stopped trying after the breakup. I don't know what's wrong with me, I wasn't a bad student but in life I'm always failing in everything. I am losing faith in myself and I feel pretty alone and a complex and unbearable person. I say I'm okay with myself but deep down I hate myself for being such a failure.

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 August 12th, 2024

@vibewithlife

It seems you are not alone as many have graduated and cannot find a job or a job/ career they had envisioned.   school IMO gives you a false sense of what a work life will be. 

Very few things in life happen in an instant and most that do are not good  accidents and disasters. Have you any work experience?  work is a whole different world then school and regardless of a perfect or flawed student does not matter. It takes time and maybe a few not so good job experiences before you find the one that fits your criteria .... if you want to only find your perfect job .......... your parents will be supporting you for years to come....  

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User Profile: vibewithlife
vibewithlife OP August 12th, 2024

Looking for something remotely my field related but as a fresher it's tough so I'm having a hard time.

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