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User Profile: Jayydeee
Jayydeee October 12th, 2025

Hi. I'm relatively new here. Everything is spiralling down and I need someone to talk to. I had a fight with a friend and we sorted it out. (She's a co worker by the way). Then the following day, I'm at work, doing my stuff and being quiet because.. I just wanted to be quiet. i greeted my senior properly and we were talking casually. I took the processing of blood samples from her because my hands are not full. Then when a doorbell rang, she was the one who answered it. I was about to check the name of the specimen, she grabbed the basket away from me.

Out of surprise I asked her. Had I done something wrong to you?

No response

I asked again

What have I done wrong tell me. (By the way I'm not shouting or anything)

She waved her hand away.

I was so upset and took my things from the common table and sat in the Doctor's office instead.

I had two consecutive fights. It is really hard for me. I want to resign from this work and go to a fresh start.

But it is hard to apply now :(

Maybe I did something wrong

Btw. I'm not sure if I would be able to reply right away since I'm on duty.

Will appreciate anyone who would input something here.

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User Profile: EnlightenedArtist
EnlightenedArtist October 12th, 2025

Hi @Jayydeee ✨

I am sorry that you experienced that at work… there’s nothing worst that not receiving an answer when you ask something

Please don’t take it personal… maybe this person is having challenges at home or just doesn’t know how to answer or relate to co-workers

Hang in there! You can do it! Then later, if you feel like, you can start looking for a different job is this one is to uncomfortable 

Sending you lots of good vibes ✨

User Profile: considerateChestnut4179
considerateChestnut4179 October 16th, 2025

Just take care of your self, cooldown, don’t say or express any thing. Forget and Forgivee and remain nice and start like nothing happened them move on, sometimes some one need and expect us to help or communicate and human ego don’t let them to start themselves so be calm like nothing happen.

These are my two cents.

User Profile: considerateChestnut4179
considerateChestnut4179 October 16th, 2025

Just take care of your self, cooldown, don’t say or express any thing. Forget and Forgivee and remain nice and start like nothing happened them move on, sometimes some one need and expect us to help or communicate and human ego don’t let them to start themselves so be calm like nothing happen.

These are my two cents.