Hi I'm Hayat, let's be friends (:
Hi all, I have been through some tough times since childhood. I have had anxiety and depression for quite sometime now and im aspiring to get better. My mind finally decided to put a stop to all the things that was dragging me down, so I cut off people who were toxic to my mental health including my parents. I enjoy solitude, but sometimes get lonely and the silence gets too loud, so im here looking for a friend.(: Painting on a white canvas makes me feel alive, I love fantasy, dark academia and dystopian books and series. I also like sitcoms, 90s Hollywood and bollywood movies. Love collecting makeup and also I write sometimes, some are poems, some one proses. I am a loyal, kind and honest and genuine. I'm curious to learn new things and about different perspectives. Currently im learning arabic so any arabic friend who'd help me out can get in touch.(: I would love to be a friend for you who will be there for emotional support and I would like some emotional support as well.
@Hayatfathima1228 First of all A Lovely Virtual Hug for u My Dear Sister 🥰❤️ May Allaah Give u strength and Success In Ur Good Wishes and Good Dreams. May U soon feel Joy of Ur Inner peace and Outer peace. May U Found True Happiness and May Ur trails Be ease On U.
And Towards 90s , I think we are almost On Same age 😄 so High-five being as a Friend of u.
And Im also Learning Arabic But ,Quranic Arabic With Tajweed.
Not conversational, my Original Language is Urdu , Yet Whenever I deal with Arabic Members Here I usually talk them In English, But if they Want Arabic i choose To Get help with translation as well it helps .
Thank you so much for your kind words. And yes, I think we have similar interests (: my spoken tongue is also urdu! About arabic, let's learn together then!😄
Yeaah I Got A new Friend here, Im soo Happy 😊🌹
@Hayatfathima1228 Hi...Nice to meet you. I am in the middle of the journey in cutting toxic people out. I rarely find kind people. My parents...I dont really know whether they are good or bad, but they hurt my feelings too much in childhood. so I maintain some distance. I had anxiety and depression a few days ago, but now I am fine. Let's be new friends... You are from india right? I am Indian too.
Hi dharshini, im sorry to hear you went through similar experiences and i can completely understand how lonely it gets when our own parents hurt us badly. So im here for you. Yes, im from india, south actually so we can be good friends (:
@Hayatfathima1228 hii 🥰
Hii :) hope you're doing good.
@Hayatfathima1228 I am your friend Hayat, If you wanna talk , you can text me . I promise you won't feel alone.
Hi friend, thank you so much. I will surely reach out.
@Hayatfathima1228 Whenever you need Hayat , You can come talk to me without any filters and fear of being judged. I am Aditya by the way.
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My name is Jawad, I am 24 years old and from Pakistan. I have been struggling with depression since I was around 14 years old. My father passed away when I was only 11, and since then I have mostly lived with a feeling of loneliness. I completed my graduation during a very difficult time in life, without much emotional support from my family.
I genuinely want peace and stability in life, but unemployment and constant stress sometimes lead me towards suicidal thoughts. I feel mentally and emotionally trapped because in my culture, people see everything through a religious or judgmental lens, and there is very little space for personal freedom.
Sometimes I find myself emotionally or physically attracted to boys, but in my society this is considered extremely wrong, which creates even more pressure and mental burden on me. I am suffering from severe depression and I don’t know how to manage all of this. I really need kind and sincere guidance on what I can do to improve my mental and emotional well-being.
Hi Jawad, I'm so sorry you're going through such a difficult time. I am a victim of anxiety, depression as well and with it comes uneasiness, loneliness and many distress thoughts. You being able to give voice to your thoughts says that you wanna live, but without the pain and suffering.
You will get employed someday. Im unemployed too due to health issues right now, so don't feel stressed. Religion is a complex thing, let people judge, you're not responsible for their perspective. they don't know what you're going through. what you can do now is probably seek help whether it will be from a therapist or god, its your choice but its always beneficial, believe me, i've tried. And be vocal about your thoughts. You'll always get an answer if you are willing to ask a question. Be it about mental health, religion, society.
You can reach out to me anytime.
With sincere hope and prayers for you- Hayat
thank you so much for your guidance
how can i reach you?
Hi, I'm Sami from Pakistan and I myself is going through depression and anxiety for many years. I know how it feels lonely after cutting yourself from the only people that you have. I hope it is getting better for you to enjoy the life again. I would love to have you as a friend.
I'm also interested in learning arabic. I tried Duolingo but it wasn't much there to properly learn. Let me know how are you trying to learn.
Hi thanks for reaching out and your comfortingwords. Im learning conversational and Written arabic through duolingo. For now it's a decent start. I'll let you know if I find any more information.
hi! your description sounds so much like myself that i had to reply. i’m trying to battle my anxiety and thought that maybe a good way to do that would be trying to make new friends. while i have some friends in my life outside the screen, it’s very hard for me to make some, i often don’t know how to go about talking to a new person. all of my friends have other good friends outside of our group and i feel like i’m the only one who doesn’t. it sounds a bit lame, but although i know they love me, i have this fear of preferring the other people, of them putting our friendship way bellow. i don’t know if i’m overthinking it because i also happen to be person who enjoys solitude and loves being alone with my passions like reading (dark academia is my favorite subgenre!), binge watching tv shows and writing to name a few, but there are times when, as you described it so well, the loneliness gets too loud. i’m not learning arabic though, but i’m trying to learn spanish :) i can’t find a message button for your profile, so if you’d like to get to know each other better, just know that i’d love to!
Hi there! Thank you for replying and sharing your story. It's anxiety that makes us fear and overthink and I can relate all too well. As for your hobbies we have them in common(: suggest me some good books in dark academia. Also, I can't reach out to members as well. Im new to this app so I think we can only connect with listeners through forum threads. Let me know how this works. Thanks and I hope you find really good friends in and outside of screen.
I'd love to be your friend🫶🏻