I have a stalker Pls help
I was at work and this guy pressured me into talking to him, I was NOT interested but with time he kept pushing me and made myself doubt that I should try. A big mistake.We met few times but he was touching me and pressure me into touching him after few times I blocked him. I was terrified of the things I've done and I told him that I don't want to have nothing to do with him, he was very manipulative, toxic. Before blocking him he kept calling me, 20+ calls and messages a day. Then i blocked him. After one year I think he puts other people into texting me on my number. I have someone from my family working in the same place but not with him but recently I've seen they follow each other and I'm very scared because he will start to talk and even say bad things that never happened. I didn't told anyone from my family because they are pretty toxic. I'm extremely scared and I don't know what to do. Please help.
@indigoOwl4608
That sounds very distressing and intimidating. I wonder if your fear is worse as you appear to be very alone with this. Is there anyone you can trust to tell? It's sad if it can't be your family, but I can understand it is sometimes like that. A colleague at work? A friend? The police? A support charity? Because I think that just telling someone might help. Even if they don't do anything, at least you might not feel totally alone with it. I'm sure that there are other people who have experienced something similar, who would be happy to help. The challenge is just finding them.
I had success with a local support group that wasn't the right one for the problems I had, but they were wonderfully kind and supportive and helped me find what I needed. Remember that they are there because they want to help people, so they will likely help, even if they can't help directly.
No, I don't have anyone I could talk to 😢 I'm trying to find some groups that I can meet people with the same problems maybe. My family is really judgemental and I don't have any friends. I feel stuck. I hate myself because I let it happen, still young and naive.
