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I have lost almost all of my friends in the last week

User Profile: modorange07
modorange07 December 27th, 2025

In the last wek I have lost almost all of my friends, two we weren't compatiable and just had different boundaries and goals, the third one is where I'm hit the most. We were friends for a year and we talked about everything,anytime there was a miscommuincation we talked about it. About a week ago I was updating her on my life and what happened with this guy explaining how him and I had a huge miscommuication and we talked about it and then we were good! I don't know how but she misinterpreted this into me repeating an old pattern of seeing the best in people and letting them treat me like *** - a pattern I have learned and outgrew. She didn't agree that talking to him was the right thing,and that i was repeating pattern. I wasn't and i told her she was misunderstanding me and what i was saying, the more i explained the more she projected and told me what she thought i was doing, I left 4 voice memos going into detail to explain,even crying in one explaining how her being there meant a lot. She blocked me without listening to them,or ever talking to me again. I want to go on my second account and say something, I am angry and hurt bc I thought we were closer?? I thought we talked about everything..and I know its for the better. I know she's been different since she got a bf,but I just i didn't think she would ever just block me like it was nothing. I know that proves that we are better off without eachother but I'm still hurt.

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User Profile: KindleMissie
KindleMissie December 27th, 2025

@modorange07 Hey, I hear you! 💛 This must have been really upsetting, and I’m so sorry you had to go through it. Losing a friend you trusted and felt close to is always painful, especially when they leave without hearing your side. Your feelings are completely valid. 🌸 It’s amazing that you’re showing bravery by reaching out and not letting this dim your light. You deserve meaningful, loving friendships, and I truly hope you find that here at 7 Cups. We’re all here to support you on your journey. Also, I’d love to be your friend and a listener for you if you’d like! 💛✨ Sending much love and hugs your way! 🤗💖

User Profile: modorange07
modorange07 OP December 28th, 2025

@KindleMissie Thank you so much for such kind words! I know it's for the better, and I hope some time in the future I attract good friends! I would love to be friends!

User Profile: KindleMissie
KindleMissie December 30th, 2025

@modorange07 Your welcome lovely soul! 💖 Ofcourse, I hope you will get so many friendships bonds whether offline or at Cups and you feel so much loved and content!! 💖 Yayy to one more friendship unlocked! 🤗🤗🤗💖💖💖 Sending best wishes and hugs ✨

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