I'm getting restless
I think I'm being used , basically my sister is facing some issues in her life in which I'm helping her , but right now , i feel like I wanna talk her and it's something important about my mental health (she knows abt all my breakdowns and problems) but when it's the time I need her most , she left my messages on seen and later she's not even seeing my messages and just ignoring it , and I know for a fact she's online and doing well because of her sharing stories on *** , I'm getting restless because why would she doesn't that, at her difficult times I was there with her , but rn , when I just wanna talk her. She's ignoring me and it's been more.than whole day , Idk what to do , I feel like block her , but she's the only person I can talk and I can't afford to loose her , she's my only friend aswell I don't have any friends , I don't know what to do atp
@amicableZebra1684 Holding on to something just for the reason that you might not get another like it can be so difficult especially if it's something that is hurting you. I'm so sorry that the person you are there for everytime they need some help isn't there for you when you need their support.
If you've communicated your hurt and disappointment with your sister and she still does this in your time of need then I think it's better to not over extend yourself for her. But if not then try to tell her that you would appreciate it if she was there for us just as you are there for her ^^
You are helping someone while dealing with your own issues and that shows how strong and kind you are. I have no doubts that you can form a great support system for yourself and I hope you find your life filled with caring and gentle people just like yourself <3
@BlueDarkAurora Thanks for your suggestion and concern , I will definitely try to let her know about what I feel , It's just the thing that her just ignoring me bothers me , I've been through with her every problems , breakups , heartbreaks , we both are close enough but there some things i hesitated to talk about with her , which I'm finally getting my courage up to talk about with her , that's why I was being so restless after she didn't bothered to reply me once I let her know I wanted to talk about , i recieved reply 2 days after my texts saying she didn't understood what I was trying to say , i just asked her meet me rn , so waiting for that.
Idk what is she going through rn , maybe she might be busy or not in state to reply , but I will definitely let her know abt this and would ask atleast just say like 'I'll reply later ' if she's busy.
@amicableZebra1684 Ofcourse it bothers you <3 it would bother anyone in your position. It does take a lot of strength to be ready to open up to someone and I'm so glad that you are trying. I love that even though you are hurting, you're still trying to be understanding and see things from her perspective as well^-^. Yes, asking her to atleast let you know that she sees you and will talk to you when she finds the time would be great. Hope it all goes well for the both of you and that things get easier for you :)