Is it better to seek the truth or to believe the lie?
How do you believe someone when you know they are lying or at the least hiding things from you? Is it better in the long run to believe them if you love them or to continue to push for the truth no matter how bad it may be? The longer the lie exists, the bigger the lie is.
It's really up to you. I like to know what's really going on so I can make an informed decision on the facts.
Some people will not come clean, no matter how many times, they are asked, for whatever reason.
I always feel like, what is the point of deception? It typically comes out eventually anyway.
I question why they are deceiving me and what else are they hiding? I need to know someone is trustworthy, it's a big deal, otherwise I can't confide in them about my feelings.
I've found a lot of people lie about small things and don't feel bad about it, which makes it so much worse.
@ScrabbleBrain
I really agree with this point here and also not that many people are effective communicators when it even comes to discussing the lie. @turquoiseDrum4587
I send you lots of warmth and healing whatever decision you make❤️☺️
@ArtisticAngel999 Thanks. Yea it's just better to calmly discuss it together and have that weight lifted off your mind, surely.
I also don't think many people realise, once trust is broken, it's really difficult to rebuild and quite frankly, most won't bother.
@turquoiseDrum4587
