Social fear
relathionship with girls and how the affected my confidence .
Girls were scared of me , we fixed that and i am better now,but i feel bad cause they have caused me to go to therapy .
They were scared of me because i give the impression that i am timid so they did nit kniw how i would react to them . Even thougth i fixed that and they are not scared of le anymore , i feel that what theyre thinking is not fair . Why would you get scared of somoene because he is tmid ? Why do you get scared of him and not the over confident guys ?
I cannot afford therapy now so if you can tell me some thougth on this.
@sadmoe1234 It sounds like you've been through a challenging experience with people perceiving you as timid and it causing them to be scared around you. You've made efforts to change that perception, but it still feels unfair to you. I appreciate your reflection on why people might view you differently than others. What thoughts come up for you as you consider these questions?