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User Profile: Aiswika
Aiswika July 15th, 2025

Im really trying hard to escape from this loop!

Someone please suggest me some books for a new start! I really want to crack upsc exam💔

I want to buy some books like ikigai, monk who sold his ferrari etc

I m feeling so low.. So lonely even if im with my loved ones...

I dont know. I really crave for surprise 🥹love

Am i a loser guys!!!

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User Profile: 16peacefulBraveheart01
16peacefulBraveheart01 July 15th, 2025

@Aishwaryai

Hey… just pause for a second and take a deep breath.  You're not a loser. Not even close. You’re a human being who’s carrying a lot on your shoulders right now pressure, dreams, expectations, and maybe some pain that feels like it doesn’t have words. But the fact that you’re still here, reaching out, wanting to grow, wanting to restart… that takes immense strength. Don't underestimate it. Feeling low and lonely, even when you're around others, is something many quietly battle but that doesn’t mean you're weak. It just means your soul is longing for something deeper, something real. And you deserve that. You deserve love that surprises you, moments that heal you, and a life that feels like yours, not a performance. About UPSC just the decision to pursue it says so much about your ambition. It’s not an easy path, but it’s yours, and your pace is valid. Some days you’ll feel like you’re flying, and some days you’ll barely move. But you’re still on the path and that matters.


🌱 Books for a New Start:

1. Ikigai – Hector Garcia & Francesc Miralles (for purpose and peace)

2. The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari – Robin Sharma (for inner awakening)

3. You Can Win – Shiv Khera (for motivation in Indian context)

4. Atomic Habits – James Clear (for breaking the loop and building better habits)

5. The Alchemist – Paulo Coelho (for hope and the magic of dreams)

6. Do Epic *** – Ankur Warikoo (honest and relatable, especially if you’re in India)

7. The Courage to Be Disliked – Ichiro Kishimi & Fumitake Koga (for healing your self-worth)

You're not late. You're not lost. You're simply in the middle of becoming someone stronger, wiser, and more you. Give yourself grace. You’re allowed to break down and rise again. And that love you crave? Keep your heart open. Sometimes the universe sends it when we least expect it not just from others, but from within. You are not alone in this. You are seen. You are heard. You are enough. 🧡 One step at a time. You’ve got this.

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User Profile: Aiswika
Aiswika OP July 15th, 2025

Thank you 🥺🫂

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User Profile: 16peacefulBraveheart01
16peacefulBraveheart01 July 15th, 2025

@Aishwaryai

Take care of yourself ❤️

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow July 15th, 2025

@Aishwaryai I'm sorry you're feeling this way, you're not alone ❤️ and you're not a loser 🤍 Sending lots of love and best wishes towards you 💕