What to do?
If you go through something, and your spouse believes that it may or may not happen, should this be a kind of support I should keep around?
@independentPear6511
I think it's difficult when the one person we rely on isn't too sure.
That must hurt but I'd encourage clear communication and making sure they understand clearly what supports you need from them 💛

Thanks… but what if it’s been 10 years? And each time something new comes up, if it happens with them not being around, they choose not to believe it, even if I tell them… makes me sad cuz I remind them how alone and crazy they had me feel before, and with these new events, I’d hope to see some change, but they rather just pretend.. I’m like.. how long do I keep putting up with this? Or maybe I am just crazy?
@independentPear6511
You are absolutely not crazy.
It's difficult when no change is imminent after all this time 💛
Thanks @Amanda84. I appreciate the comforting words.
@independentPear6511
A pleasure 💜