Worries
Im worried i might lose my bestfriend..she became really distant and im overthinking a lot if shes going to leave or not..she started to hangout with her “friends” more often while im hanging out with myself i talked to her about it a lot but she goes with “your still my bestfriend but what cant i have friends?” I mean i dont mind her having friends but i really do miss her so much man..i just wish for things to be normal again.
@exuberantNorth4447
do you have any other friends ? have you tried to make some ?
this will not end well if you need or expect all your social interaction to be filled by one person who has other friends and interest......
is there a reason you could not hang out with their friends and expand your circle?
i never asked them if we can expand the circle and i do have friends but they got other friends to hang out with as well which idk what to do anymore im just waiting on nothing..
@exuberantNorth4447
Understandably, you might feel that way. Although we can't always control other people and their decisions in life. Your best friend is going to meet new people and create more friendships but in the end, she is going to be your best friend. Also, It is great that you communicated your feelings to them. You received assurance for the same, right? Why don't you try giving more space and time to your best friend? At the same time, you'll give more space to yourself as well. Know this, you are NOT losing your friend. Relationships can change but do their value has to change too?
@exuberantNorth4447 That sounds really difficult for you, I'm sorry to hear that. When you talked to her what else did she say?