ghosted

every single person i’ve tried to date has ghosted me. no matter if i met them online or in person, no matter how good the vibes were, nothing. i know that when you’ve been ghosted you shouldn’t blame yourself but when every single person does it to me how am i not supposed to blame myself? i also know that maybe i should take a break from dating but i’ve never been in a relationship before and im in my mid 20s. is this all there is to it? what is so fundamentally inhuman about me that not a single person can muster up the courage to just reject me with words?