Fear of being judged/what ppl think of me
So, I am terrified to do anything, whether it be do something, or comment on something, because I'm scared someone is going to think of me as a bad person. And i try to be a good person, but I'm still scared. and I'm lowkey worried my friends only hang around me because they want something from me or feel bad for me or something.
@itzthisboi
Heya I'm really sorry to hear that but as for that most of the time people aren’t judging you. And when they are, they are almost never judging you as harshly as you do yourself also note that.ur judgements are usually based on our own insecurities or fears. They are also formed with assumptions and are quickly forgotten, If someone expresses their judgements to you, either directly or via their actions, they don’t deserve to be part of your life
as for your friends I know how it might feel when people all around seems only to have something from you, it might come out of lack of trust, maybe those friends really cares about you loves you and just wants to be friends with you whether it is nor that you are beloved in every way, haters will be all around for every single human, thats what makes us alive the best way to deal with them? by recieving fire within us moving forward using their judgments and showing them how resilient how strong and how shiny you are.. I wish you the best <3