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User Profile: Femaleteen16
Femaleteen16 December 25th, 2019

I attend a fitness centre but there is this one member of staff who doesnt treat me quite right she is female aged 52

(I cant go to another gym as there isnt another one close enough and there is a lot going on at home as well as I cant report it) The things which are listed is what she does (this woman)

1.because I do a class and they instruct it if your leg is to high or your arm is to low she says "can I move" (whatever body part it is then moves it) but with me she doesnt ask they just move

2.because u have to swipe in the fitness centre, gym and classes she sees where I've swiped in and where abouts I'm in the fitness centre

3. She says that she has spies and people watching me round the fitness centre

4. She does jokingly gestures" like She points her finger at me but smiles at the same time

5. She talks about me to other members of staff about me

6.she tells me about the holidays she goes on and that she has adult children (which is true they do have adult children)

7.if I'm talking to someone I know in the gym and she is watching she seems to be jealous

8.She is all jokes on momment then the next it's totally different

9. She are just very watchful and suspicious of me and around me

10. She only do things like what I've stated when nobody else is looking or around

Once I was in a fitness class and the woman who doing these things was instructing it and one of the moves you had to keep your feet on the floor and because I couldnt keep my feet on the floor she came over (I was on my front on my belly head down) she giggled then she sat on my feet and because I was still trying to move my feet whilst her sat on them she said that Im a strong girl


i was doing a plank and my back was to high and she was gently pushing my back down but I was resistanting and she smacked the grown three times and said your not doing the plank right and she said its okay to tremble in a plank (I was as planks are hard) also I was sweating in that class (I dont generally) and she said I was sweating which was good as I dont generally sweat

I was in a fitness class and she was taking it and we was all doing planks and she was walking round the room and she came upto me crouched down and said your doing the plank wrong why are you even doing it you cant even do it right you might as well just sit on your bum and do nothing

At the end of one of my classes it was like a 10mintue relaxation time were she puts some dim lights on and you just lay there any way I found this hard to do as I cant sit still for long so she was walking round the room just making sure everything was okay and because I found this bit boring I was just quietly fiddling my bracelet and like wiggling my toes ect i was doing it quietly but the woman was just stood there watching me

I was on my hands and knees on all 4s and like one f your leg u had to bend it
like the L shape and i putting thigh on ground when I shouldnt be and she was pushing my thigh up

She was instructing my exercise class (There was other people in the exercise class) and like after the first 10 minutes
She began to Instructor our class with just a sports bra on and trousers (she obviously had knickers on as well) and she said with a massive grin I like to be entertained
(She said I liked being entertained to the whole class)

Because you have to go through a door to like lockers, gacuzzi, steam room and a communal area then each end there is male and female changing
I was at my locker she walked past me gave me a look then went into the toilet area (nobody else was in there) she came out like 10mintues later and gave me quite a stern look

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User Profile: thoughtfulmomma
thoughtfulmomma December 26th, 2019

@Femaleteen16

I'd report the person to the corporate office. Staff is supposed to be there to help, not hurt. She sounds like she has no people skills.