Am I the only one?
I've been in a relationship with my current boyfriend for just over a year now, but over the past couple months I can't handle physical contact with him. It's taking a toll on our relationship big time. Every time he touches me it's like my body rejects it, my skin feels like it's crawling and I get crazy twitches/muscle spasms. It's not just him but it seems to happen the worst with him. From what I've read online it could be anxiety twitching but I just don't know.
I guess my question is has anyone else experienced this before?
@Iguesstheynevermisshuhh
You definitely arent alone in feeling this way. For one reason or another many people do experience this. ♡
It can be tough for our partners to understand that.. its not necessarily personal. And it can also be tough for our partners to feel their needs are still being met— and this can fill us with guilt that were needing to prioritize our own needs first. This can cause frustration and maybe even confusion.
There is nothing wrong with you for feeling this way. And, you listening to how you and your body is feeling is intuitive. I respect that you are setting boundaries while you figure this out, and I hope your partner does as well.
Have you ever felt this way before? Do you feel anything from your past could be influencing this physical/emotional development? ♡
