Anxiety about relationship and exams
I have incredibly important end-of-highschool exams coming up in about two weeks, with six subjects to study for, but I can't study because I'm obsessing over all my long distance boyfriend's new girl friends, whom he often texts and hangs out with. We've been together for two years, but all my trust is falling away. And these intrusive thoughts keep coming about how the girls are more interesting than me and I can't focus and it's driving me insane. How can I make it stop?? I feel like I'm sabotaging myself :(.
I would trust your gut and say he’s not being loyal to you :/ I went though a similar situation in high school and I found out my boyfriend was sending nudes to my best friend. My best friend was the one who told me because she knew it wasn’t right. Try to do things you enjoy . Take a break and take time for yourself and get back to the grind . I know so many people probably tell you this but trust me when I say don’t stress over a man especially if you think he’s not treating you right . I would break it off and focus on yourself
Hey, I’m glad you reached out!
The new girl friends definitely sounds a little sketchy, there’s nothing wrong with checking up on what he’s doing. However, if he really does love you, you have to make sure. I definitely recommend you think about this before you make any decisions. Try sitting down and talking to him.
You can do this! You can get through it!