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Anxious about being anxious!!

User Profile: Lou84
Lou84 January 17th, 2018

Does anyone worry about every possible thing? My biggest worry is about what people think of me! Always justiflying myself! I honestly get anxious over being anxious I wish I could remove my brain and replace it with a nicer one!

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User Profile: peacefulHug92
peacefulHug92 January 18th, 2018

I can relate to this. When we're anxious, we cling onto these things called 'safety behaviours' for some sort of relief. The most common is avoidance!! If we are worried about being worried, we will often avoid that situation so that we don't have to experience worry. The problem with this is, we will never know if we became anxious - so we become more anxious the next time, then avoiding it again. It's a very annoying cycle to be in 😂😂❤

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User Profile: Lou84
Lou84 OP January 19th, 2018

@peacefulHug92 that make so much sense!! I never look at it that way 😂 honestly anxiety really makes you feel like you're losing it at times doesn't it.

I suppose laughing at it really does help to get you through also! I wonder if there's ever an end to anxiety or if its more of a case in finding ways to cope with it ☺

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User Profile: peacefulHug92
peacefulHug92 January 19th, 2018

@Lou84 I agree, laughing about it makes it feel less serious and scary ❤

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User Profile: Lou84
Lou84 OP January 22nd, 2018

@peacefulHug92 I must remember to do this.. might make it a little easier!

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User Profile: cuteMouse1408
cuteMouse1408 January 19th, 2018

I can totally relate...It is a horrible cycle!

User Profile: Roadie
Roadie January 19th, 2018

Hi @Lou84

Thanks for contributing to the forums. I moved this to the Share Your Story forum section as it seemed a more logical fit :)

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User Profile: Lou84
Lou84 OP January 19th, 2018

Hey @Roadie no worries and thank you ☺

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User Profile: Booklover95
Booklover95 January 22nd, 2018

@Lou84

For sure. Anxiety is a pain in the ass. You're not alone!

Have you tried seeking professional help? Also have you tried some coping mechanisms? Like breathing techniques, sports or venting to people

Best of luck

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User Profile: Lou84
Lou84 OP January 22nd, 2018

@Booklover95

I know it's awful!!

I have yes I'm under the doctor and on medication the lot it would just be nice to know it will go away one day and be able lead a normal life wouldn' it. Maybe one day haha ☺

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User Profile: iwasntborntofade89
iwasntborntofade89 January 22nd, 2018

@Lou84

'Anxious about being anxious' sounds like the title of my life story. Even when things are going alright I'll freak myself out by wondering when it's all gonna fall apart. Anxiety is a beast to deal with. Hopefully we'll both find some help on this site and in general.

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User Profile: Lou84
Lou84 OP January 22nd, 2018

@iwasntborntofade89

I think this site have been such a great help and there's some lovely people here. It's nice to know you're not the alone feeling this way! Anxiety is hell to live with it really is I hope we all find a way to cope with it abit easier!

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User Profile: iwasntborntofade89
iwasntborntofade89 January 23rd, 2018

@Lou84

Me too

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