Feeling alone and without friends now

@AbbyHarris1976 I know how you feel. I don't have any close friends. i have a hard time connecting with people because of low self-esteem. I would be glad to chat with you anytime. I believe i have the ability to be a great friend.

Hi there, I feel the same way too. I get that completely. Omg can relate so much. Yes it can be hard getting no one to understand . Most people don't but that's cuz they dont understand most things or situations what goes on.

That's why it's a society thing. It really needs to change. People don't the help they need all the time. We neglect, don't spend time with them, ignore the problem. Only focus on ourselves .

We should also focus on ourselves not saying that but kindness doesn't cost nothing . It's important we do look after number one and that's us .

How your feeling is what most feel. I know exactly how you feel too . These signs show you are lonely, isolated, ignored, depressed and lacking confidence so likely to be anxious .They mean you have no social commucation around . It's very important you do .

It's stopping you to do anything about it but as you feel you can't you won't so changing that comes with getting out of your head and being proactive in making it work. We can't control people or situations however we can prevent it becoming an issue with thinking about ourselves not letting certain people come into our lives. I know you can't stop it but if you are prepared yourself from getting hurt your likely get people to hurt you . Prevent the worse happening and if it does find a solution.

There's always something you can do to improve a situation . Just finding the right one but the more important thing in this is you and how you start to change in yourself . We are ones in control, we can do what we please and it's learning the steps into showing the best person in yourself at those times.

I know your thinking how will this change . People are still gonna be mean . It does start with you and you the target . Nothing else but you will effect the situation.

Thank you for your replies.

I'm gonna keep signing up for meetup events that I'm interested in. There's one this Friday but the meetup is currently full, so I'm on the waitlist. I think by Friday, I might be off the waitlist and on the going list.

I think I also have to realize (and it's really hard for me lots of times) that if anyone feels the need to be passive aggressive, or any kind of aggressive, toward me when I didn't do wrong or intend to do wrong is because they're dealing with their own garbage and maybe keeping it bottled in instead of using appropriate means to reach out for support? That's kinda my two cents on that.

Thank you all again!