How to change

@StarlightEma

Hi

There are times most of us feel that way.  It feels like its impossible to get out from here and coming up with what to do next seems such a tough task.  Whenever I find myself in such a situation, I try to come up with a list of my goals like where and how I want to see myself in near future.  I will try to come up with pathways to achieve the same.  It kind of motivates and guides me to take the next stem and unstruck myself.  This helped me, I am not sure if it helps to everyone, so I am looking forward to see what others do and what helped them the most. 

I hope you get out of this situation soon.  My best wishes!

@StarlightEma I totally understand the frustration associated with knowing you want to change your life but not having a direction. What have you intentionally done to narrow the possibilities?

@StarlightEma it's understandable that you feel stuck but always good that you have the need and knowing you want to change your life . We been there . Try to take your time and think where to start the changing journey.  All best for you. 

@StarlightEma Hey Ema! I believe I'm experiencing this right now. For me, I go through a mix of emotions. Sometimes i feel discouraged when there seem to be no noticeable changes in my life. Other times, I feel very hopeful about my future. I believe it is good to have patience and clear goals about what you want your life to be. I constantly have to remind myself that things are going to change as fast as I want, but if I trust the process, I will eventually get to where I want to go. I get encouraged by the thoughts of what I want my life to look like, and I use that as motivation to keep pushing towards my goals slowly every day. Being your biggest fan and kindest friend is important when you feel like this!

Hello, i hope you are feeling better now. There was a time when anxiety was all over me and I couldn't even move but that phase went over and now I am a lot better, I'm sure you can overcome anxiety. You could try coming up with activities that relax you, or if you are comfortable, talk with someone whom you might trust.

@StarlightEma

Hello! I completely understand what you're feeling. These feelings are normal and also take time. Writing or talking to others may help. Sending love your way!

@StarlightEma

Hi Ema, it takes a lot of self-awareness to notice when you’re feeling stuck and ready for change. Thank you for taking the time to share, I hope that you are able to get through it (:

@StarlightEmah Hi! 

Thank you for sharing this. It is a very relatable and honest reflection. It’s completely understandable to feel uncomfortable when you are aware that you want to make a change, but aren’t sure which direction you should take. Many people go through this stage of emotions before figuring everything out. It’s okay to take time to figure everything out. You’ve got this! 

@StarlightEma I’m sorry you’re feeling stuck somewhere between changing and not changing. Sounds like you could use someone to listen to you while you figure it out. I’m usually available and if I’m not, I’ll get back to you soon. We could find the best course of action together. 

@StarlightEma 

Hello, I understand your feeling, and I know how hard it can be when someone wants to change but doesn’t know the direction yet. With time, you’ll find your path. Don’t give up, keep going.