How to get a girlfriend (my idea of it)
1. Dont just follow just any girl, just cause she is beautiful, nice or such, you will end up chasing a girl that will make you waste your time and take you out of focus of your goals. Find someone who resonates with you, or wait for her to stumble in your life.(edited)
this goes to myself too
2. never change for a woman, if you want to change do it for yourself, cause you think you will be better. There are so many people who change for a woman, and end up being fakies, same applies to women who change for men(edited)
3. Is not that JUST girls like someone who has higher aspirations in life, is that a lot of people like this kind of people girls and guys alike. I need this too
4. We people love to [expleteive deleted] ourselves, tell that women are like this, men are like this. Its all [expletive deleted]. Stop thinking in terms of men and women, but in terms of people. Both men and women are equaly capable of being super productive or lazy or bad or good.
5. . Every single person is a whole new world, don`t expect to all fall in place just cause you learned a few tricks, instead be yourself, this is what it makes us uniques, that every single person acts and behaves in a different way. So expect the unexpected, and try to flow with the nature of how things are and now how you expect them to be.(edited)
@okeyyyy Sorry-- I took 2 naughty words out of your post!
This is a really great post! It seems like you've developed some really evolved ideas about interpersonal relationships lately. This is tremendous progress in how you've been feeling about finding and interacting with others. Great work!
