I feel like i’m failing
I’m a very ambitious person and when I don’t get something I really set my mind to and was excited it about, it tears me down a lot. recently i applied for a position at my college that could waive some of my tuition fees. i was really set on getting this position because it would help my parents financially and sometimes i feel bad about them having to pay for my school, even though they say not to worry about it. I’ve been so nonstop anxious about waiting to hear back about the position, and when i finally did, I ended up being an alternate for the position. Even though that’s not a bad thing because it means i still have a chance, I still feel so anxious and depressed like I let myself down. I feel like i’m failing at life even though I’m not. Im trying my best to stay positive, but seeing my friends get excited about how they got the position and I didn’t, it just makes me feel like i’ve done something wrong. I know my brain is overthinking everything, it’s just hard to control my anxiety and remind myself that everything will be okay.
@alaina117
I understand how you feel and your emotions are completely valid. Our brain tends to trick us into feeling bad about ourselves or our life. The key to healing is to love and accept yourself, no matter what. You worked hard, but for some reason, you didn't get the job. It does not reflect on you as a person. There are many other factors at play, which are mostly unrelated to our merit. There will be many more opportunities, and I'm sure you will be ready to take them when they present themselves. Good luck!