I need advice
I'm 19, an online university student that is currently living at home due to Covid 19. I do not get along with most of my family (especially my mom). Yesterday, we got into a big argument and she says extremely hurtful things. She said over and over that she wants me to move out and leave and that she doesn't care. I've been in my bedroom since (it's the next day) and nobody has said anything about it. I want to move out. I have a place to go, but I am scared to tell them. I feel like they will be angry with me and somehow try to make me the bad guy. I will talk to my parents about it in a few hours when they're back from work, but my anxiety is so high. I am so scared because I think it'll turn into a big argument or problem
Hugs. Can you write down what you need to say? Writing out the words can help to clarify your thoughts and give you a script if you become too emotional to think or speak straight.
I have told my children to move out. It’s not because I don’t love them. When we fight it’s stressful so we say things we shouldn’t say and we don’t mean. Just tell her calmly and don’t react if she has a bad reaction. Just stay calm and everything will be ok.
They will flip it’s gonna happen and you just need to keep a level head and tell them it’s temporary on a trial basis and if it is better for you all then so be it. Or you can do what I did leave pack your shit sneak out change your number and block them on social media. Cut them off completely and do you! I did and I’m doing alright.
@SarahLM03 sending love. we can hep you, pls write what exactly you'll say
@SarahLM03
just do what you think is best for you right now. Maybe everyone could use the adjustment
Hey.. um I know im kinda late to give an advice but i kind of have a little bit of the same situation and i wanted to know how your doing now. Is everything alright?