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My brother returns home

User Profile: momoenverano
momoenverano August 13th, 2021

Hello,

My brother returns home today, well at least we're not going to be alone, my parents finally will stay too, these days without him have been amazing, except yesterday, (i left a comment in spanish explaining why).

You may think it's good to have him back but the reality is that it's not. He's one of the reasons why I usually feel like sh*t, he's the one who is insulting and scorning me all the time. He says I speak bad to him but if I do is because of him.

It's not my fault to not want to have any relationship with him! I can't handle my own problems and then him and he's sh*t! I don't even hope things will get better between us, I just want him to leave me in peace! Like don't talk to me, wash your own things, do your own food and don't touch mine or my things, don't ask me anything even favors, go outside with your friends and disappear for hours, I don't need to know about your life!!! If you can stay in others house's for days, then please do it!!!!

The worst part is that my parents think that I overreact but that's not true, I'm not able to handle my feelings right now but I am to handle my brother? I'm sorry but mom, dad, that's not how things work to me.

Momo

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User Profile: Lonelywolf1994
Lonelywolf1994 August 13th, 2021

I have gone through the same issues. My brother is 5 years older than me. When he is single he tends to be calm and minor issues only, but when in a relationship he only brings problems. For example, he started dating this girl and got her pregnant on the first month dating which from there they got married. That is when they starting talking trash about my wife and I because we told them to get to know each other first before getting married and to take things slowly. There is alot for the story. To make things simple is that every time he is around problems always follow. How old are you? And who house is it?

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User Profile: momoenverano
momoenverano OP August 13th, 2021

Hi,

Actually I'm 17 and I live with my parents and my brother who is 19, as you can see, I can't do anything about it (or that's what I think) because it's impossible to get rid of him and we're not specially rich so I can't ask my parents to live on my own or to live in any other place.

Momo


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