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My sister's friend

User Profile: Justaguardgirl
Justaguardgirl January 27th, 2020

Me and my sister have a friend who is in the military and is deployed. She came back for Christmas and New Year's. During this time, my sister's friend group came over to my house a lot. Almost 5 days a week. One of the friends is a guy named Ethan. I noticed that he started to stare at me and once I caught him bit all he did in response was smile and continue to stare at me. It makes me uncomfortable and it doesn't help that he keeps making comments about how I am "illegal" or in other words I am not 18. My sister and mom know but neither of them seem to help. My sister defended his actions the other day in an argument and my mom just passes it as him having a crush on me. And all my friends have noticed his staring and are creeped out too.

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User Profile: luxx454
luxx454 January 27th, 2020

@Justaguardgirl If a guy continues to stare at you and makes comment about how you are "illegal", it is uncomfortable and while it is hard, it may be helpful to let your feelings be known to the one making you uncomfortable. Sometimes people are ignorant of what they cause others to feel, but you deserve to be respected by others. Hope everything turns out okay!