Overwhelmed
My wedding is in 10 days and I am struggling to get everything done while working to jobs to pay for it. I hate my day job and my second job I'm on my feet constantly. I am not getting enough time with my wife and she leaves for Japan next year so time is precious. I want to cry and scream. I feel selfish because I did this to myself because I wanted things for my wedding and now I'm paying for it with blood, sweat, tears, and time.
sounds tough im sorry to hear that
@Snowwhite2
A wedding does make people feel super overwhelmed. The balance of what you want, work, and life is hard especially at this time. I see that unpleasant jobs, work-life balance, and financial demands create a loop for work-related stress. There are several ways to coping with work-related stress like time management, self-care. Make sure to have a short break on time, that will ease some stress. Wish you a nice wedding.
I may sound very cruel, but I personally would not be doing a big/expensive wedding if money is the issue. A small family only wedding with affordable wedding gowns, and a small cater meals would be ideal if your budget is small.
