Question
Ok, I'm really confused about a situation I'm in right now and I need some help understanding. So my boyfriend recently broke up with me and I gave him like a week before I talked to him again about dropping his things by and getting my things from him. And today early in the morning I told him I wanted to figure out a time and he responded with ok. Then I asked him when would be a good time for him and he is ignoring me now. At first I thought he was busy so I just left him alone all day but then I seen he has been on social media and video games.
His coping mechanism is to shit everyone out and think for long time periods when things are going on around him that he doesn't like or want to deal with right away.
But Im confused still just about y he may not be responding or reading my messages. Does he need more time? Does he just not want anything to do with me? Is he avoiding it cause he doesn't wanna face the fact that we aren't just taking a break this time, even though he broke up with me? Maybe he's just hurting and talking to me makes him upset? cause he has depression too so sometimes we need to do the things that make us feel better so we don't go down that dark hole. I don't know, if be grateful if anyone could help shed some light on this situation.